Having A Curvy Figure And Being Judged

Are you curvy and get judged by people who want to make remarks about your body? Does this get you down and make you feel less worthy? Well it shouldn’t, it’s perfectly fine to be curby and even big. It’s your body you decide what you want to do with it.

If you are feeling pressured by people around you to look a certain way, get rid of cellulite or anything similar, that’s their problem. When the media is pressuring us to look a certain way I get furious. Why can’t we be who we are and be accepted for it?

There is nothing wrong with loving great tasting food and indulging in good food. People make a living making food, they are called “chefs”. They make amazing recipes for us to enjoy. So we should. It’s their job to make us eat amazing tasting food. The results of this is some people gain weight and get big, because we “overeat” as they like to call it.

Well, I don’t think I’m “overeating” in any way. I’m just enjoying the foods that are out there in this world. I don’t see a problem with it. Somebody created it for others to enjoy, and I’m one of those people who enjoy it thoroughly.

People will judge my body for being “large in size”, bbw or what have you, but I am just a happy loving mother. I take their critique and I throw it right back at them. Are you a better person for being thin, if I WANT to be big and eat what I want?

If you are staying slim and living the dream in a “bikini body” like the Instagram celebrities and keep worrying about being judged, you are way worse off than me. You are not even being true to yourself, you are staying away from the things you love because of what people may think of you, and to me, that’s not a way to live.

The debate is discussed in this video below, what do you think?


Personal Development Tips That Are Important To Know

You may sometime feel it’s overwhelming to engage in a personal development program to help motivate you, if you are big. Before going into self-help for “being large”, there are a few things you need to consider first. There are a variety of ways you can develop your confidence and sense of worth. Once you have found how to develop your own self personally, you will begin to look and feel better in a way that will be immediately apparent to, thus leaving you with a great sense of worth.

For example, if you ever feel you are “too big” weight loss should not the only reason to exercise. You should also feel the inner fire.

A great way to get help is to ask others about their achievements instead of bragging about your own, sharing is caring.

A counselor may be able to look into your life from the outside and give sound advice that you can’t see yourself. Ask them for advice on body image or anything else that may come to mind if you are really struggling.

It’s very common for women to battle depression. A diet that includes more complex carbohydrates is better, such as green veggies and fruit A diet that is deficient in complex carbohydrates can lead to a depletion of serotonin, this leads to reduced mood.You should aim to increase your intake of good carbs by eating plenty of fresh fruits, fruits, nuts, brown rice, whole grains and assorted beans.

Avoid shopping as a form of entertainment or comfort.If you try to spend your time doing something you like instead of shopping, you won’t have to stress over unpaid bills from spending all your money and will have a less cluttered home. This helps when cleaning at home.

Try to be in tune with yourself and remove the disorder and chaos from the most painful aspects of your life and focus on the good things. Getting organized should give you a sense of accomplishment, and staying organized will definitely help get you more confident. This also lead to less stress because the disorganization contributing to it will be eliminated.Having everything in its own place will give you a calming energy.

Everyone feels much better when they in are healthy, but healthy doesn’t mean “skinny” or running around with a bikini body. It means good blood values and even some fat on your bones. If you want to be active, for your own self, make a goal to improve your fitness and make healthy lifestyle one of your high-priorities. This doesn’t mean you should sacrifice who you are as a person however.

You need a positive attitude in life in general to be happier. I’ve found that’s true when it comes to my kids. I play with them and it makes them smile, this in turn makes me smile. A negative attitude will hold back your advances in life and may actually lead you down the wrong path. The right path is your own to follow.


Decide what it is that you want to do with your life and do it, be it start a business, play with your kids, stay at home with the family, be outside with your dog etc. You need to step up and implement a plan of action in order to realize your goals to make them really happen. My goal this year is running this blog, talking about life and helping people become a better version of themselves, with a message of big women are beautiful.

If you feel stressed, try to avoid overreacting to the “small everyday stuff”. There is no need to do that.

You might’ve heard that listening is just as important as speaking. This truth applies to yourself as well. Always pay attention to what you are saying to yourself and analyze if it’s helping you achieve your goals.

An important bit of personal development is to treat your body with respect, even if it’s big.When your body lets you know that it needs food, water, drink, or medical care, give it what it needs as soon as you can. Doing so will make your body to function efficiently for as long as you live in it. Cherish what you have and keep your head up high.

Full Figured Women Are Big And Beautiful

Woman Sitting Cross Legged on a Rug

What is beautiful? In today’s mainstream media it seems to be the skinny type. You know the kind with amazing Hollywood bodies! Well, to me it’s any woman. You should be comfortable being WHO YOU ARE. Accept everything about yourself, even your size. Your size is likely beautiful for many.

Some men only focus on women who are “of size” so you should never feel bad about that either. Some men even call themselves “chubby chasers“, such as this guy who absolutely loves big women.

Here we have women worrying about the least important things in life, how we look. There are billions and billions of people in the world and we are all different. That’s life. Accept it. Here in the fatosphere plus-size dating sites are popular, so you can definitely find a match here with somebody who loves you, and even more for your size.

If you don’t listen to media and famous instagram profiles like Kayla Itsines, who promote a perfect “bikini body workout”. Of course, that’s what most women believe is important because of this mass-hypnosis in the media. Just because you are not slim, doesn’t mean you are a bad person. Take me for instance.

I play normally with my two kids. We have fun. I can throw balls with them, walk the dog and take them to the movies or the zoo. I have no problems at all with this. Sometimes I do feel a bit heavy, but nothing is stopping me from enjoying my life. I hope you too can experience life in the fullest by being who you are. To me and many others out there, full figured women truly are beautiful.

If you want to lose fat for some reason, do it because YOU want to, not because you feel pressured by others. Especially media or nay-sayers. I was on a huge dieting spree several years ago and it didn’t make me happier. Honestly, it only made me feel worse about myself, until I realized I was living exactly how I feel and didn’t have to cater to anyone, with anything. That’s something to be proud of.

Tell me what you think below, shouldn’t we love ourselves just the way we are?